Sunday, 1 March 2015

Why are relationships so hard sometimes? Do you ever wish you had guide to follow so that you could avoid a sticky situation with your "bae"?? Well I'm going to share with you every week tips on how to make your relationship work and please feel free to share with me ideas and experiences of your own  cause I wanna hear 'em.

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  1. I believe that there is hardly a template to follow about making relationships work. However, I do believe that there are some fundamentals to be followed like, openness, honesty, communication, gentleness and ability to always make your partner feel as if he/she comes first. These sound simple, yes; but often times our own individual experiences/ideas hinder us from doing what seems so elementary, leaving bae with some feelings to tote and you with unwanted worry.

    Just a muse. I am very much interested to see your weekly tips to improve my relationship game. I can learn a thing... or ten

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  2. Relationships varies from person to person . There is and will be no fixed guidelines to relationships at least to me . To me its all about the individuals . Most pple tend to rush into relationships and fall in love with the idea of the person thn the actual person which is infatuation . To me relationships tend to crumble due to the maturity levels of persons. Nowadays j hear how these teenagers who cant even boil rice complain about love and relationships lol . But to me a person could never really give themself a fIr chance of hVing a long term relationship if they jump into a relationship without finding themselves first. This is why i believe that the yrs of 18 to 24 is integral in personal development and finding oneself and building a career which after these crucial steps in life only then a person will truely knw oneself and knw what exactly they want in a relationship.

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    1. I agree with you 100% the only way you can be happy with someone is by being happy with yourself first. Thanks taking this into consideration.

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  3. ashleigh diba.4 March 2015 at 03:27

    In order to have a good working stable relationship,it might sound "cliche" but honesty,trust and communication goes a long way ... Every single day you learn about each other no matter how many years has passed you still learn something new.Be considerate,appreciative,attentive,loving towrds each other,these things should never die.. Always be willing and be positive ,you want to show that side and make that person comfortable enough to come to you with anything,always have have an open ear .Be yourself its actually more fun that person will love you more than any other if you show the things you are capable of without hesitation.Always be there for each other no matter how rough times may seem because everyday life throws stuff our way that we dont like.If you truly love someone dont listen to the opinion of others when they are trying to be negative because no one knows that.person as well as you do !! Be thankful for every moment spent and know to yourself theres more to come ... Lastly love each other like theres no tomorrow and let your love be effortless and passionate ...

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    1. wow this is really good advice. Thank you I think you touched on a lot of important areas.

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  4. first thing is to underatand the difference between love and lust...people often mistaken the 2 and thats a major reason why relationships fall apart and leads to cheating. love is a spirtual connection between two persons whereas lust is a desire or yearning for someone for instance physical attraction this does not mean the person wants a relationship simple means they want your body and thats it...people need to understand there is nothing wrong with being alone as long as you learn to love yourself you will be quite fine and leave the rest to God....If you are not ready to give 100% to someone dont get into a relationship its alot so be prepared for the expected and unexpected!!!!

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    1. Very very true. Thanks for your comment keeping it in mind for future posts.

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